bluebell
Well-Known Member
difficult child 17 got a speeding ticket and his court date is Monday. We talked with the court and he can take a driving class for $50 and be on probation or he can pay the 200 and let it go on his record.
He's left our home as of last week and we've told him we will take him to get probation set up but he needs to come home, shower, and look presentable. He wanted my husband to pick him up this morning on his way taking daughter to school and go to court from there. But we don't want to pick him up from where he's staying. He will smell like an ashtray and bo and he'll be wearing his garanimals. That's no way to go to the probation office!
Should we stand our ground and let him suffer the consequences? If this goes on his record I'll never be able to insure him again and what if he doesn't go to court? Will I get a summons since he's 17????
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He's left our home as of last week and we've told him we will take him to get probation set up but he needs to come home, shower, and look presentable. He wanted my husband to pick him up this morning on his way taking daughter to school and go to court from there. But we don't want to pick him up from where he's staying. He will smell like an ashtray and bo and he'll be wearing his garanimals. That's no way to go to the probation office!
Should we stand our ground and let him suffer the consequences? If this goes on his record I'll never be able to insure him again and what if he doesn't go to court? Will I get a summons since he's 17????
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