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Contact a Domestic Violence shelter or agency TODAY. There are sooooooo many things they can get for you and help you with. Get those divorce papers filed and get a TRO soon using his behavior but especially this last "visit" as evidence for one. A DV center can help you with that too. You'd be crazy not to get help from them.
In our state, our utility bills are only in the name of the head of the household. Not sure if that's the case there but I would be careful with that.
If you're parents are that supportive, ask them to help with the phone AND changing the locks ASAP. The others are right. He will go into HIS house anytime HE wants to "and there's nothing YOU can do about it" (can you hear him saying this?)
I am glad you're enjoying your new life and your new freedom. Yes, there are other stresses but you are handling them beautifully. The kids will learn a HUGE lesson by watching you go through this.
In our state, our utility bills are only in the name of the head of the household. Not sure if that's the case there but I would be careful with that.
If you're parents are that supportive, ask them to help with the phone AND changing the locks ASAP. The others are right. He will go into HIS house anytime HE wants to "and there's nothing YOU can do about it" (can you hear him saying this?)
I am glad you're enjoying your new life and your new freedom. Yes, there are other stresses but you are handling them beautifully. The kids will learn a HUGE lesson by watching you go through this.