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to have a function for my kids ( scouts) and im volunteering with animal shelter that is going to b there.. I had to cancel several times over before now im canceling again.. they dont want be back ever if i canceled again. They need a certain amount of people there..I cant leave my son with my dad because when my son finally gets out of bed he will be angry/violent/call police because i left and he didnt go- dad cant hack it. So I cant go.... Im so sick ... the migraines .. stress...
I said Id never come back but I had to be heard by someone ....anyone. As far as an update my son is a smidge better but still violent ( not as bad), nasty nasty mouth with violent threats and still failing school I dont think he will make it to 3rd grade( refuses medications wont eat so I wont give them to him). The school sends him home when he tells them he had the pill and didnt eat.. so that will be daily. The new pill Vynesse 20 mg which is doing nothing for him when he does take it. I got a referral yesterday for a clinical psychologist or clinical psychiatrist ( Im sooo tired havent slept good in days) I forgot which one cant find the paper now . I had to keep on the Dr and he seemed annoyed I asked for a referral and keep talking about my sons adhd and anger issues and need to find out if anything else.. No respect to allow my father to sleep - he stays wild and loud...does help more with dogs but and sometimes vacuum but thats about it.
My daughter.. stays up ALLLLLL night long electronics .. even if they r all gone- she will read all night. Everything else still same with her.. just more and more comments about lack of facial /emotions/speech from others. Even lost out on a school because she couldnt ( or wouldnt as my grandpa says) carry a conversation with interviewer. Refuses a tutor and starting to fail...
(gotten them before and she just sits there looking around or not looking up etc) My grandpas ex caregiver( she quit ) I took over mornings as well as keeping my lunch and dinner times with him (my dad has brought dinner and lunch too- runs errands for him) anyways she says my daughter has schizophrenia.. she sees that in her...Which with all the dram this morning his old caretaker is calling me now because my grandpa called her.. hes not doing well.... so now.. i gotta leave the kids alone so i can check on him...she said hes not well
They both get upset when I cant buy extra stuff at the store whether it b food, books, clothes, toys etc. Embarrassed me to no extent yesterday at the register in front of sooo many people I looked like a loser mom. It takes both on most times an hour- 11/2 to get up not including to get ready with us saying over and over and over nicely get up, lets go etc. Ya, we have cussed and yelled no denying that... but after several repeats ya,, we get annoyed too. Well.. i hear take them to doctors get them examined ya right sooo much easier said then done. As my kids and others say.. its all my fault always has been.
I write on animal forums and most time no one writes me back.. I must be so stupid/ horrible. I thought my life was planned and that I was smart enough to handle things like work and this but it seems as if Im not like im just a stepping stone or a mat... No one will ever hire me... still jobless but.. again I have to cancel all the time at volunteer places!!!! So ya, I see how im not reliable ... I want the best for my kids but at this point whats next?
I cant afford to go to the dr( an am scared of certain test results) See, my health is getting worse, my weight, havent had a pap in years ( lets say... not a good idea..) soo much more. So much more drama with my sis too... "Best friend "only calls me when she needs money( ya like I have any) and has no time for me. Sorry I know this is have update and have vent which the vent belongs in watercooler.. but.. just no sense. So.. all i can do is raise my kids as i am,, attempt to steer them in right direction and when they are 18..Im moving from here. I don't know what I will do or go. But.. it really is ALL my fault.. sorry so long sorry all
I said Id never come back but I had to be heard by someone ....anyone. As far as an update my son is a smidge better but still violent ( not as bad), nasty nasty mouth with violent threats and still failing school I dont think he will make it to 3rd grade( refuses medications wont eat so I wont give them to him). The school sends him home when he tells them he had the pill and didnt eat.. so that will be daily. The new pill Vynesse 20 mg which is doing nothing for him when he does take it. I got a referral yesterday for a clinical psychologist or clinical psychiatrist ( Im sooo tired havent slept good in days) I forgot which one cant find the paper now . I had to keep on the Dr and he seemed annoyed I asked for a referral and keep talking about my sons adhd and anger issues and need to find out if anything else.. No respect to allow my father to sleep - he stays wild and loud...does help more with dogs but and sometimes vacuum but thats about it.
My daughter.. stays up ALLLLLL night long electronics .. even if they r all gone- she will read all night. Everything else still same with her.. just more and more comments about lack of facial /emotions/speech from others. Even lost out on a school because she couldnt ( or wouldnt as my grandpa says) carry a conversation with interviewer. Refuses a tutor and starting to fail...
(gotten them before and she just sits there looking around or not looking up etc) My grandpas ex caregiver( she quit ) I took over mornings as well as keeping my lunch and dinner times with him (my dad has brought dinner and lunch too- runs errands for him) anyways she says my daughter has schizophrenia.. she sees that in her...Which with all the dram this morning his old caretaker is calling me now because my grandpa called her.. hes not doing well.... so now.. i gotta leave the kids alone so i can check on him...she said hes not well
They both get upset when I cant buy extra stuff at the store whether it b food, books, clothes, toys etc. Embarrassed me to no extent yesterday at the register in front of sooo many people I looked like a loser mom. It takes both on most times an hour- 11/2 to get up not including to get ready with us saying over and over and over nicely get up, lets go etc. Ya, we have cussed and yelled no denying that... but after several repeats ya,, we get annoyed too. Well.. i hear take them to doctors get them examined ya right sooo much easier said then done. As my kids and others say.. its all my fault always has been.
I write on animal forums and most time no one writes me back.. I must be so stupid/ horrible. I thought my life was planned and that I was smart enough to handle things like work and this but it seems as if Im not like im just a stepping stone or a mat... No one will ever hire me... still jobless but.. again I have to cancel all the time at volunteer places!!!! So ya, I see how im not reliable ... I want the best for my kids but at this point whats next?
I cant afford to go to the dr( an am scared of certain test results) See, my health is getting worse, my weight, havent had a pap in years ( lets say... not a good idea..) soo much more. So much more drama with my sis too... "Best friend "only calls me when she needs money( ya like I have any) and has no time for me. Sorry I know this is have update and have vent which the vent belongs in watercooler.. but.. just no sense. So.. all i can do is raise my kids as i am,, attempt to steer them in right direction and when they are 18..Im moving from here. I don't know what I will do or go. But.. it really is ALL my fault.. sorry so long sorry all