Well, while dont have Eric quite under control yet, he is still in a better daycare than the others, this daycare has experience with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)/ADHD children. I still havent had Occupational Therapist (OT) for him because UHC is dragging their feet on approving it. We are still going bananas, all out bananas too. My middle girl, Danae was diagnosed after starting school with ADHD, but I dont think that is really all she has. She thinks very negatively about herself and she does it all the time. She is constantly either throwing a fit or crying over the smallest things. I am going to take her to the psychiatrist Eric is seeing. Her biological father, and I didnt find this out until after I was pregnant with her, was in an institution for a year, cause after he found his stepfather cheating , he woke up in the middle of the night and decided he was going to try to kill them. DID I mention he is in jail now for a violent offense and added more time to his 7 1/2 yr sentence by fighting with a deputy? The extent of my mental history is the day I left my exhusband, I was depressed for a week, and now I have anxiety issues. Who wouldnt, or who dealing with this doesnt? I dont quite understand all of whats going on with them but Im pretty sure Danae is bi-polar, my mom was/is. I remember watching her having the highs and doing her Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) cleaning and her suicidal lows. Danae acts the same way, one minute she is bouncing off the walls, the next she is telling me that noone likes her in her school and that I dont even like her, that she is stupid, and that she should just go away. Very emotional, I called her my little drama queen and she broke down in tears and told me I was mean and I didnt love her. Is it me going crazy, imagining that these things are happening, I dont think so, but Im getting to crazy real soon I'm afraid. I am so scared to hear that she is bi-polar or odd, both of those really scare me.