AmericanGirl
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A friend of a friend saw on difficult child's FB page that he was going to visit bio dad. Not good. See my signature. I know difficult child will try anything to get his way, stay in his disease and hurt me.
i am not going to bend to abusive demands from him. I have told him that for a while. I am not safe meeting him for any reason.
i believe bio dad will come here to demand docs and leave difficult child just off my property so he isn't trespassing. It fits his pattern. For that reason, I have packed and will be going to a hotel with my dogs about 9am.
my neighbors will drive by extra as will the police. I may return sat and may stay til sun.
see if this makes sense plz. I'm in shock and am trying to grasp this....while my fears and ego hates the fact they will spend hours lying and criticizing me, I know this needs to end for me. At least for now. I am outta ideas, hope and patience. While I would be shocked if difficult child recovered there, maybe he can heal his broken spots where his bio dad is concerned now he has chosen to face him. He never wanted to talk about him.
I'm praying they will leave me alone. I am going to need to heal and grieve. This is about as deep as a betrayal can get.
i am not going to bend to abusive demands from him. I have told him that for a while. I am not safe meeting him for any reason.
i believe bio dad will come here to demand docs and leave difficult child just off my property so he isn't trespassing. It fits his pattern. For that reason, I have packed and will be going to a hotel with my dogs about 9am.
my neighbors will drive by extra as will the police. I may return sat and may stay til sun.
see if this makes sense plz. I'm in shock and am trying to grasp this....while my fears and ego hates the fact they will spend hours lying and criticizing me, I know this needs to end for me. At least for now. I am outta ideas, hope and patience. While I would be shocked if difficult child recovered there, maybe he can heal his broken spots where his bio dad is concerned now he has chosen to face him. He never wanted to talk about him.
I'm praying they will leave me alone. I am going to need to heal and grieve. This is about as deep as a betrayal can get.