Now what? She's failed the class, the test, won't take the state exam, has no job, loses her insurance on January 31st. I asked her what Plan B was and she just looked at me. She was making a music CD for a friend. I don't know what's going to happen, but I know we're not lifting a finger to help her at all this time. And she knows it. No yelling, no lectures - it is what it is. What a disappointment; I really thought that this phlebotomy course was going to be "it" for her. I really believed that because she was so interested and had begged to do this, that she would get it and do it and make it happen for herself. Proved wrong, once again. I give up. H still has pipe dreams about her now going to some secretarial classes - AND getting state financial aid. I don't know what he's thinking. If difficult child helps herself, I will support her [as in be a cheerleader] but I am not forking over any more money. Sixteen hundred dollars was enough for me and she blew it.