Ok, I can't hold back on this - please don't be offended. I've heard about how Tony placed more import on his brother than you and his son, I listened when Buck was intentionally playing the two of you off each other and Tony allowed it to happen, I've heard about how Tony and Billy don't do any cleaning around the house when you are not feeling well, I listened when Tony refused to clean the bathroom after the dog had pups and you were so sick because it was your dog - but Janet, if any man I had been with for 20-some years actually had the balls to accuse me of stealing his money......I would not be responsible for my actions. All the other things would be reasons for me to rethink this relationship - I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't understand my needs or begrudged my needs - but to assume that your partner stole your cash? It would be a deal breaker for me. Just saying....
Sharon