I haven't been here long but I just wanted to say what I've noticed here.... It's so great that nobody here is judging. I have given up talking to even some of my friends about the problems I am having with my son because even they judge. I can see it in their eyes and hear it in the comments they make - "tell him no", "ground him" - or similar. Really? Do you not think I have tried these things? I guess the ones that are judging aren't the friends I thought they were. I just want to say thanks! I'm glad I found this place.