JJJ
Active Member
Kanga told her therapist that she is bisexual and is scared to tell me. Then Kanga tells me anyway. therapist seemed shocked that I didn't care (Kanga must have done a hard sell that I would be upset because normally therapist is better at catching this manipulation.) Then it was that she was "dating" one of the other girls at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Again, I didn't react. Last night, it was that she is having sex with a different girl at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I was very calm and told her that at 15, she needed to make her own choices and I would hope that she would learn to have more respect for herself than to have sex with someone in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) washroom. I kept my response totally calm.
IMNSHO, Kanga is getting ready to blow
(1) she is trying to drive a wedge between me and therapist (who I believe is gay, which would explain why Kanga thinks telling her I don't like gays (which is a lie) would drive a wedge)
(2) she is trying to push me into yelling at her so that she can blow up and make it my fault
It is so much easier to detach when she is not living here.
She's also reported that the voices are telling her to hurt staff and the other girls. (I guess since we aren't there often enough to hurt?!?!?!?). Most staff are cutting her some slack since she has always been the "good girl" at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) but the few who see how totally delusional and manipulative she is are waiting for the blow up as they know it will help more staff "get " her and allow them to better address her delusional state.
IMNSHO, Kanga is getting ready to blow
(1) she is trying to drive a wedge between me and therapist (who I believe is gay, which would explain why Kanga thinks telling her I don't like gays (which is a lie) would drive a wedge)
(2) she is trying to push me into yelling at her so that she can blow up and make it my fault
It is so much easier to detach when she is not living here.
She's also reported that the voices are telling her to hurt staff and the other girls. (I guess since we aren't there often enough to hurt?!?!?!?). Most staff are cutting her some slack since she has always been the "good girl" at the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) but the few who see how totally delusional and manipulative she is are waiting for the blow up as they know it will help more staff "get " her and allow them to better address her delusional state.