It has been 3 years this week since Kanga lived with us. In those 3 years, there was a 10-month span of time near the beginning where she didn't see the younger kids and it has now been 14 months since she saw them last (in between that she had 5-6 monthly family visits that included the kids). Eeyore and Piglet have not spoken with her on the phone in 10 months and both state that they have no plans to speak to her. Tigger has spoken to her twice for 1-2 minutes in the last couple of months. The younger kids tdocs all pushed for severely limiting their contact with her due to her abuse of them. There are no plans to reintroduce them to each other. In my ideal world, she leaves them alone forever. In reality, it's a 50/50 crapshoot whether she disappears back to her "birth culture" or stalks them/us. Has anyone else had a similiar situation? How did the sibling "relationship" work out as adults? Were the victim-sibs able to hold their own as adults? Did the abuser try to continue their abuse? Did they just stay away from each other?