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Wiggles77
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Hello...
Well it is week 2 of 1st grade and already my son's behavior is rearing its ugly head. Problem is I think SOMEONE is going CRAZY... either my son, the teachers, the other kids, or ME.
Class (so far) has been good for him. No complaints in these first 8 days! However, in his before/after school care, he has already been in trouble for hitting, pushing, talking back to teachers, and "following kids around" even after they have requested he stop.
The reason for my post is I am so confused about my son's reaction to it all. It is almost like he has no memory of anything that is happening. That, or his recollection of the event is entirely different than the story I am getting from the teachers. Instead of "throwing the dinosoaur at the girl" he "accidentally knocked a block onto her head".
He never rememebers doing what they said he did. I ask him why someone might THINK he was doing these things. He flat out, honestly, sometimes with tears, tells me that the person is lying. He says everyone is lying. The teachers, the kids, the parents. All of them!
I might understand 1 person lying about the event. But everyone? It is so hard for me to believe. I tell him that I WISH I could believe him, but so many people have the other story. He then cries gets so sad that I do not believe him.
I feel like I am going CRAZY. He looks so earnest when he tells me he is not doing these things. I think he honestly believes he is not doing anything wrong. Who am I supposed to believe???? I want to believe him. I love him. But what am I supposed to do when everyone else seems to have the other side?
Well it is week 2 of 1st grade and already my son's behavior is rearing its ugly head. Problem is I think SOMEONE is going CRAZY... either my son, the teachers, the other kids, or ME.
Class (so far) has been good for him. No complaints in these first 8 days! However, in his before/after school care, he has already been in trouble for hitting, pushing, talking back to teachers, and "following kids around" even after they have requested he stop.
The reason for my post is I am so confused about my son's reaction to it all. It is almost like he has no memory of anything that is happening. That, or his recollection of the event is entirely different than the story I am getting from the teachers. Instead of "throwing the dinosoaur at the girl" he "accidentally knocked a block onto her head".
He never rememebers doing what they said he did. I ask him why someone might THINK he was doing these things. He flat out, honestly, sometimes with tears, tells me that the person is lying. He says everyone is lying. The teachers, the kids, the parents. All of them!
I might understand 1 person lying about the event. But everyone? It is so hard for me to believe. I tell him that I WISH I could believe him, but so many people have the other story. He then cries gets so sad that I do not believe him.
I feel like I am going CRAZY. He looks so earnest when he tells me he is not doing these things. I think he honestly believes he is not doing anything wrong. Who am I supposed to believe???? I want to believe him. I love him. But what am I supposed to do when everyone else seems to have the other side?