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So, this morning Q says.... is this what sex sounds like? and he makes some sounds that unfortunately do sound like sex sounds, groans/grunts etc. Things one could learn from a movie or even tv show but his stuff is so blocked I just couldn't imagine that. He said and they rub boobs like that....(remember, he was saying boobs have sex???)
I showed no judgement, and asked, so where did you hear that? He said "Leo" in the hospital told him that. AND that he told Q he wanted to do that.
once again.....ARE YOU KIDDING ME?????
I first sent a note to school given that he mentioned it once there... I warned that he is likely to be stuck on this a little and that we had to be very careful to not accidently reinforce it by "processing" it, warning him that it is sexual abuse etc.... because it will just dig the road deeper and deeper. They need to divert, distract, "halt!" etc. I used singing a song this morning because for one t hing he hates when anyone sings and I knew he would then have to go to a mode of asking me to stop singing etc.... change of topic. It worked this time anyway.
I asked him (to see how far this went) again..... So what is sex? He said AGAIN, it is when people have babies. I said so you have seen people have a baby on tv, I have never heard that... He said, it must happen after the baby is born. SIGH,
He will get in such trouble with this stuff and he has no clue that woudl support he is actually trying to sexually abuse anyone. He just does what gets a reaction and what is stuck in his brain. Just so sad.
And, such a good example of how he can't hide anything for long. This other kid obviously had the social skills to be sneaky and not let adults hear him. Q got in trouble for it over and over. Probably still will.
I showed no judgement, and asked, so where did you hear that? He said "Leo" in the hospital told him that. AND that he told Q he wanted to do that.
once again.....ARE YOU KIDDING ME?????
I first sent a note to school given that he mentioned it once there... I warned that he is likely to be stuck on this a little and that we had to be very careful to not accidently reinforce it by "processing" it, warning him that it is sexual abuse etc.... because it will just dig the road deeper and deeper. They need to divert, distract, "halt!" etc. I used singing a song this morning because for one t hing he hates when anyone sings and I knew he would then have to go to a mode of asking me to stop singing etc.... change of topic. It worked this time anyway.
I asked him (to see how far this went) again..... So what is sex? He said AGAIN, it is when people have babies. I said so you have seen people have a baby on tv, I have never heard that... He said, it must happen after the baby is born. SIGH,
He will get in such trouble with this stuff and he has no clue that woudl support he is actually trying to sexually abuse anyone. He just does what gets a reaction and what is stuck in his brain. Just so sad.
And, such a good example of how he can't hide anything for long. This other kid obviously had the social skills to be sneaky and not let adults hear him. Q got in trouble for it over and over. Probably still will.