Does anyone else have these behavior problems with their difficult child? (Mine is an 11 year old boy-who takes foccalin short acting)
* First, difficult child is showing no respect to my things. For example, used my shaving cream in shower- I spoke to him about it- but he did it again-- the whole can was gone! I made him pay for it.
Along the same lines as above-- I went for one of my weight watcher bars (food item) and 2 were left! Again difficult child- again not the first time! Made him pay for them
Now-- I just went to use an eye gel that I hardly use-- guess who was in that!!!!!
** Second-- he seems to be destructive-- in the past I have found ripped up Yu Gi Oh cards in his room- no biggie- just stopped buying them. But, last week he put his multi-tool knife through his blanket on purpose-- husband took it away from him
Today, I find the tin plate to his Boy Scout mess kit all dented and destroyed.
WHY DOES HE DO THIS? WHY DESTROY THINGS?????? I don't get it.
*** Third, last week, a neighbor told us they saw difficult child on the roof outside his room. We spoke to difficult child about it-- so he doesn't do it again-- DANGEROUS! But, just because we spoke about it doesn't mean he won't repeat it! He told us, he wanted to see how his room looked from the outside!
Any advice or thoughts appreciated!!!!
Tonime
* First, difficult child is showing no respect to my things. For example, used my shaving cream in shower- I spoke to him about it- but he did it again-- the whole can was gone! I made him pay for it.
Along the same lines as above-- I went for one of my weight watcher bars (food item) and 2 were left! Again difficult child- again not the first time! Made him pay for them
Now-- I just went to use an eye gel that I hardly use-- guess who was in that!!!!!
** Second-- he seems to be destructive-- in the past I have found ripped up Yu Gi Oh cards in his room- no biggie- just stopped buying them. But, last week he put his multi-tool knife through his blanket on purpose-- husband took it away from him
Today, I find the tin plate to his Boy Scout mess kit all dented and destroyed.
WHY DOES HE DO THIS? WHY DESTROY THINGS?????? I don't get it.
*** Third, last week, a neighbor told us they saw difficult child on the roof outside his room. We spoke to difficult child about it-- so he doesn't do it again-- DANGEROUS! But, just because we spoke about it doesn't mean he won't repeat it! He told us, he wanted to see how his room looked from the outside!
Any advice or thoughts appreciated!!!!
Tonime