Hello, I stumbled on to this website out of desperation this morning. Thank you all for sharing! I didn't read too much before I called my husband and told him we need to evict our freeloaders. We are going to talk tonight and get our plan together so if anyone has suggestions before then.......I'm open to new ideas. Just a brief family outline..... Son 29 recovering drug user, divorced, back home after 1 year living on the streets. Works as much as he can but that's only 1 or 2 days a week. Then uses all of that money to buy beer and go out to eat. Has his girlfriend (the most normal of all of them) living with us too. Daughter 26 might be off drugs at the moment but still have my doubts. Not sure if she is employable due to stealing from a former employer. Has not worked in a year and a half and is mean, dirty, lazy and feels we owe her. Has her homeless boyfriend living with us half the time. We have been married 33 years. My husband works hard and all the time just so we can get by. EVERY time we have an extra $20 someone cons it out of us. My sons girlfriend is the only one with a drivers licence and a car. So every time they apply for a job or do anything I am the one that has to drive them. This has been going on for more than 10 years. Every time I think we make a few steps forward something else happens and we keep ending up in the same place. We know we can't keep living like this. It's not acceptable for us to live with the arguments, filth and disrespect, cost, depression, lies and stealing. I feel awful to say it but I don't even like my kids anymore. Just off the top of my head I want to give them till June 10th to move out. I will pay for a storage unit to put their things in if I need to.