beachbeanb
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Just a few short weeks ago (seems like years ago) I was saying on another forum...."I don't think we have a drug issue".....well how quick things change. I have found out my son has supplied pills and alcohol to a girl that was so messed up at school she passed out. Known drug dealers are calling my house ...saying they are someone else. Our house has been broken in to....something my son had a hand in. Typing this just makes me sick.
But time to man up and move forward from the shock of it all. We have him on the waiting list for a tbs but it probably will not be until after Christmas. I have taken his phone, we have monitoring software on the computers, and have done some investigative work on who is who on his friend list. We live in a relatively small area so word does travel about. I have also taken away all access to cash. I wanted to strip his room but husband thought that was too harsh...it was a big arguement and I caved.
I don't even know what my question is other than "what else can I do?"........move? Lock him in his room? Withdraw him from school since we will have to do that anyway when tbs calls??? Call the administrators at school who know me and tell them what I know?
Any info you may have will be greatly appreciated.......nothing worse than this feeling......
Beachbeanb
But time to man up and move forward from the shock of it all. We have him on the waiting list for a tbs but it probably will not be until after Christmas. I have taken his phone, we have monitoring software on the computers, and have done some investigative work on who is who on his friend list. We live in a relatively small area so word does travel about. I have also taken away all access to cash. I wanted to strip his room but husband thought that was too harsh...it was a big arguement and I caved.
I don't even know what my question is other than "what else can I do?"........move? Lock him in his room? Withdraw him from school since we will have to do that anyway when tbs calls??? Call the administrators at school who know me and tell them what I know?
Any info you may have will be greatly appreciated.......nothing worse than this feeling......
Beachbeanb