dreamer
Document the incident. Odds are boyfriend was scared out of his mind and overwhelmed. His reaction most certainly wasn't good.....But not all people react well to such situations. Being immature and inexperienced most likely exacerbated it as well.
So. Has the PP PE already been diagnosed? Or are they now thinking it's something else.......or is the liver enzyme a new wrinkle? Sorry, just trying to get the picture in my head. I'm relating it to my easy child who is very worried for your daughter.......and sends her love by the way.
It has been a hellish 10+ months for you and daughter. OMG and now this.
When boyfriend calms down.....the three of you....daughter, boyfriend and you need to sit down and come up with a plan for such circumstances, You know, who handles baby, who does what so that everyone knows what's going on.
If this is not behavior that is characteristic of boyfriend, odds are he was panicked. And I've seen my own easy child react with anger during panic. Fear of the unknown is the worst fear of all. When he's calm, explain in layman's terms what's going on with daughter medically and what it means. That may do tons to relieve many of his fears, even though there is still reason to worry.
I'm so sorry you and daughter are having to go thru so much. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
(((hugs)))