Status Quo

Discussion in 'General Parenting' started by JJJ, Mar 16, 2008.

  1. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Kanga is home. The littles are currently having their second visit with her. So far, she seems to be following the safety rules. The others are keeping their physical distance but are talking to her. We have a plan in place that will limit her contact with them and me to just 6 hours per week.

    22 days until the grant funding decision...please keep praying
  2. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    Course, right after I post, she gets agitated!!!! Ugh, well, I'm taking the littles out of to you later.
  3. dreamer

    dreamer New Member

    I keep you and your family in my prayers. THank you for touchng base! Yu have been on my mind. HUGS!
  4. Big Bad Kitty

    Big Bad Kitty lolcat

    I was just thinking about you. Thank you for the update.

    Continued prayers for you and the family.
  5. witzend

    witzend Well-Known Member

    Fingers crossed. This is all just so wrong...
  6. meowbunny

    meowbunny New Member

    witz said it all

    Just wanto add a hug or two.l
  7. KTMom91

    KTMom91 Well-Known Member

    Adding my hugs and prayers...
  8. trinityroyal

    trinityroyal Well-Known Member

    Witz is right.

    Adding my hugs and prayers.

  9. jannie

    jannie trying to survive....

    Sending hugs--
  10. klmno

    klmno Active Member

  11. tammyjh

    tammyjh New Member

    Sending lots of peaceful vibes your way.
    Sorry to hear that she's gotten agitated and you had to leave.
    Praying that the decision swings in your favor
  12. susiestar

    susiestar Roll With It

    Witz is so right.

    Hugs and prayers sent several times a day! We will never forget you in our prayers, promise.

  13. JJJ

    JJJ Active Member

    As Eeyore said, "that wasn't so successful". The best thing was that Eeyore and Piglet both quickly went outside when Kanga started to escalate. Of course, Tigger just ignored her (good) but didn't leave (bad). I was able to get Tigger out to the car and we left. husband said that after we left she remained agitated and complained that our visit interrupted her tv watching. She hasn't seen her siblings in 3 months and she cares more about a tv show she's seen a 100 times?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    The littles and I are not going to even attempt to move home until after Easter. We'll try again then -- while things are going well at my parents, we could all use a good night's sleep in our own beds.
  14. meowbunny

    meowbunny New Member

    Sigh. Poor confused Kanga. Somewhere inside of her there has to be a sweet little girl screaming to come out. She doesn't deserve this. You don't deserve it. None of you do. I'm so very, very sorry.

    I truly hate the games social services play with us and our kids. The bottom line is supposed to be what is in the best interests of the child. When will this actually be the case?
  15. nvts

    nvts Active Member

    I'm getting calusses on my hands from the beads, but I'm still rubbing!

    I feel so bad for all of you, wish I could do more!