hi yup another difficult child in my world, only partially though. husband's oldest daughter. who from day one has been a huge problem for us. she is explosive has caused so much upset the past several years. she doesn't come here anymore thank god. so past year and a half it's been calm because she doesn't come here. yet now christmas is approaching and quite honestly she'll be here wish she wouldnt' be. i do not like her at all and have to fake it. i know that's terrible. shes lives on drama loves chaos and as of late has been talking about easy child's boyfriend to the younger kids at their home and to other kids in school. her and easy child go to the same school. so, we let it go. easy child got very mad yet we decided if we handled it we'd make it worse. than today easy child comes home to announce how my stepdaugher stuck her middle finger up at easy child as they passed eachother in the hallway. i can't stand this kid. seriously. in the past years i've tried everything i could to acclimate her, took her for manicures, shopping spent time with-all the girls you name it. yet she'd still bad mouth me, yell at me, start drama. so when she stopped coming it was a sigh of relief. so now with this new piece of info. husband and i discussed it and i said to him you gotta talk to her. honestly i'm enraged at this little piece of work. she texts me her xmas list the other day than goes after MY kid. WTF. i hope husband plants her and she pulls her usual i'm not coming for xmas because i dont' like your wife. Would LOVE that. just what we all need more drama in our home. she's a punk this child. has serious problems and is exactly like her mother.