This is a typical teen question, but Duckie (of course) takes it to a difficult child level. How do I deal with her being so ssslllooowww to complete anything? I'm talking sloth-like slowness: eating, dressing, studying, showering, etc. Everything. I'm pulling her out of swim class after this evening after she made us late yet again. I'm tired of apparently caring more than she does. It's part ODD, part distraction, part boredom and part time management. She's driving me to drink.