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Or when/if they call you, flat tell them to take it up with the judge, he said for them to sort it out.
Tell the CMO that if she doesn't want difficult child in a shelter than she needs to push DYFS harder to find him a bed at an Residential Treatment Center (RTC). My daughter Kanga stayed at a shelter group home for 30 days. It was a lifesaver for us and she enjoyed it.
The CMO is trying to wear you down. Call your doctor and get some medications to help with the panic attacks and anxiety and make sure you and husband are seeing tdocs.
Under NO circumstances are you to let difficult child come home for even one hour. If he comes into your home, CMO will tell themselves nad the judge that it wasn't that bad and he is home now so he can just stay with you. The bed in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) will NEVER materialize if you let him coem home right now. No way is he safe to be around you all after this short a time period.
Take time for you. You are being a great wonderful mother. You are thinking of long term happiness. You are thinking that getting him help now will be much better then him trying to kill you and ending up in jail. Its hard to keep this in mind when everyone is telling you otherwise (even if they actually agree with you -- like the psychiatrist. Her saying she'll call that agency is implying you are a bad mother.) They don't want to pay for services and they aren't thinking long term. And, just because he says he isn't going to kill you know doesn't mean that 2 min after he is home when something happens that sets him into a rage he isn't going to change his mind. You are being a great wonderful mother. I hope you are seeing a therapist and getting medications to get you through this. You are a great mother.