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toughlovin
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is really dangling by a very thin thread!!! I hope you all had a good Thanksgiving. We had a nice dinner out with our daughter....and Thank goodness I forgot my cell phone so I didn't have to think about difficult child at dinner!!! Maybe that was an unconcious thing on my part!
I am thankful this year for the wonderful couple that own and run the sober house where my son is at. They left me a message and then called me after I called them back. My son is messing up again... not caught with drugs this time but doing some other stuff which is pretty darn stupid. They could definitely throw him out. And because we have given him no money directly he doesn't have any money to buy spice or anything and they said he is kind of jumping out of his skin.... he is gonig to have to face his feelings. And because they are recovering addicts themselves they are totally on to him..... but my difficult child is going to have to make some decisions... like decide he is going to follow the program or be homeless....
He really didn't want them to call us... but they told him they were going to. I suspect we won't hear from him because my guess is he feels embarassed and ashamed.
So it kind of makes my stomach hurt (or maybe that was the big meal) but I also know that at least at the moment he is safe.
TL
I am thankful this year for the wonderful couple that own and run the sober house where my son is at. They left me a message and then called me after I called them back. My son is messing up again... not caught with drugs this time but doing some other stuff which is pretty darn stupid. They could definitely throw him out. And because we have given him no money directly he doesn't have any money to buy spice or anything and they said he is kind of jumping out of his skin.... he is gonig to have to face his feelings. And because they are recovering addicts themselves they are totally on to him..... but my difficult child is going to have to make some decisions... like decide he is going to follow the program or be homeless....
He really didn't want them to call us... but they told him they were going to. I suspect we won't hear from him because my guess is he feels embarassed and ashamed.
So it kind of makes my stomach hurt (or maybe that was the big meal) but I also know that at least at the moment he is safe.
TL