Chaosuncontained
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Several times per week (ok, sometimes every day) Carson acts up. Disrespectful, aggressive, depressed, tantrums. Non compliant. Chaotic. Bouncing off the walls. Demanding.
And then...
Almost every time he goes to his Dad's there are ZERO problems. He usually only spends one night a week with his Dad. But he spent Sunday night until Thursday this week. ZERO problems.
What is up with that??? Can't help but feel...like this is all my fault. But I am loving, attentive, I disipline when it's needed. I tuck him in, fix his favorite foods. I am not mean. Abusive. Scary. I don't scream at him or discipline him too harshly.
Yet he misbehaves here. And acts OK there. And I don't understand...
And then...
Almost every time he goes to his Dad's there are ZERO problems. He usually only spends one night a week with his Dad. But he spent Sunday night until Thursday this week. ZERO problems.
What is up with that??? Can't help but feel...like this is all my fault. But I am loving, attentive, I disipline when it's needed. I tuck him in, fix his favorite foods. I am not mean. Abusive. Scary. I don't scream at him or discipline him too harshly.
Yet he misbehaves here. And acts OK there. And I don't understand...