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or E day for eviction, I guess. Just about until katie and family are due to be put out of our shelter.
The whining and excuses have grown very very old. Communication has dropped off to minimal simply because neither Nichole or I can take it. If we respond to the mails.....we ignore anything to do with the whining or excuses. Well, once Nichole told her off in a nice way but that went right over her head as it always does. But usually is just easier to ignore them completely if it's too full of self pity.
Today she mails me and "reminds" me she applied at two hud places here in town. Uh, no. She only claimed to have applied at one, not two. Seems one had her at the top of the list......and now she's suddenly been dropped down to 28. Other one she's allegedly 3rd on the list. I find this very interesting since homeless get top priority with hud apartments....it happens to be the law. Due to her being in a homeless shelter if she applied she'd be at the TOP of both lists. Mainly because all shelters have limits on how long you can stay.
I just shook my head. Gee. This girl is the only person I know who always seems to go down on lists instead of UP.......doesn't matter what she's on a "list" for either. Amazing. Everyone else moves up, while she only moves down. But I doubt I'm supposed to be observant enough to notice that.
Then she says she told both of them that M works for husband and I doing yard work and that is how they intend to pay rent........so by the way if they call please say he does. Uhhh, no. He doesn't work for us. Will not work for us. And I'm not going to lie to a govt agency I myself have used in the past and may someday in the future need to use myself. (god forbid but one never knows)
Alex is suddenly wetting the bed every night.
Guessing the disability was turned down. Betting my bottom dollar that she either didn't apply at either hud place......or was turned down due to M's felony.
Just a tad over 2 wks to go and now the panic is setting in. Oh, well. Not my problem.
She is aggravated I won't let her come "switch out" clothes for the kids. I simply flat out ignore the request. If they just show up I won't be opening the door. Last mail she did try the "kids want to visit you" bit........odd but I've seen then once since xmas and just now they want to see me? A ploy to come over and rifle through my things in the family room while they pretend to go through theirs. I'm sure the kids want to visit.....but the request didn't come until the requests to come over for other reasons was ignored. Know what I mean??
The family as a whole is pulling away from her. She refuses to learn and any "help" we give her at this point only reinforces someone else should take care of her and the kids. Sad, but what can you do. ugh
The whining and excuses have grown very very old. Communication has dropped off to minimal simply because neither Nichole or I can take it. If we respond to the mails.....we ignore anything to do with the whining or excuses. Well, once Nichole told her off in a nice way but that went right over her head as it always does. But usually is just easier to ignore them completely if it's too full of self pity.
Today she mails me and "reminds" me she applied at two hud places here in town. Uh, no. She only claimed to have applied at one, not two. Seems one had her at the top of the list......and now she's suddenly been dropped down to 28. Other one she's allegedly 3rd on the list. I find this very interesting since homeless get top priority with hud apartments....it happens to be the law. Due to her being in a homeless shelter if she applied she'd be at the TOP of both lists. Mainly because all shelters have limits on how long you can stay.
I just shook my head. Gee. This girl is the only person I know who always seems to go down on lists instead of UP.......doesn't matter what she's on a "list" for either. Amazing. Everyone else moves up, while she only moves down. But I doubt I'm supposed to be observant enough to notice that.
Then she says she told both of them that M works for husband and I doing yard work and that is how they intend to pay rent........so by the way if they call please say he does. Uhhh, no. He doesn't work for us. Will not work for us. And I'm not going to lie to a govt agency I myself have used in the past and may someday in the future need to use myself. (god forbid but one never knows)
Alex is suddenly wetting the bed every night.
Guessing the disability was turned down. Betting my bottom dollar that she either didn't apply at either hud place......or was turned down due to M's felony.
Just a tad over 2 wks to go and now the panic is setting in. Oh, well. Not my problem.
She is aggravated I won't let her come "switch out" clothes for the kids. I simply flat out ignore the request. If they just show up I won't be opening the door. Last mail she did try the "kids want to visit you" bit........odd but I've seen then once since xmas and just now they want to see me? A ploy to come over and rifle through my things in the family room while they pretend to go through theirs. I'm sure the kids want to visit.....but the request didn't come until the requests to come over for other reasons was ignored. Know what I mean??
The family as a whole is pulling away from her. She refuses to learn and any "help" we give her at this point only reinforces someone else should take care of her and the kids. Sad, but what can you do. ugh