Wait, this gets better! So The dr at my IOP said he didn't have room for me right now in his in-patient program, so I could go to Renfrew. Great, I was there before- I'll go there, I called Renfrew (no waiting list to get in) and they sent paperwork over to my GP for him to fill out. I went there yesterday (still need to get bloodwork on Monday) when I got home from the gp's office husband wanted to know where my note for work was. We had a HUGE fight because he thought I was going to the GP for a second opinion and NOW this guy will give me my note!!!! So, where the heck is it???? UH........husband, no note. In fact if he did give me a note and I went back to work, they woud take one look at me and send me to their own private dr, on their dime, and I'd be right home, which would be worse for me at work.
. WAY WORSE.
That happenend 2 years ago, but their (the school district I work for) dr said I was fine and I worked another 2 weeks before I went back to the hospital- this was awhile ago. I'm sure he would never allow for that same approval to be given, considering what happenend last time he "approved "me back to work. That cost $438 dollars to my district, I saw the bill. Anyway,
My weight was 90 on Wed, 91 on Thurs, and 92 Fri---people 's weight fluctuate. Once I go to the bathroom, who knows what it is.
So, Once I get the bloodwork done, supposedly it takes 24 hours, Renfrew will call me and tell me when I can come. husband will know when I get the call, I'm not fighting with him. Although I did accuse him of wanting me to die. At which point he just kept saying, I want to you to get help. So, I said good, that's what I want as well, so I repeated what he said and we left it there because I'm getting help my way, and he'll know soon. At least he said he wanted me to get help. But somehow I gained and maybe I'll keep gaining and not have to go. I have no idea how that happened, by the way.It's freaking me out. But he is on board with me getting help. That was the best I could get for now from him.
Also, my paperwork from the IOP place that "took" me out of work in thefirst place gave my return to work date as March 31, 2012. Because after In-Patient I would go back to my same IOP program for awhile to make sure my weigth is stable. Plus, that is the 12 week federal family leave act I can take. husband has to know things in baby steps. BUT I'm mad as heck, I still get most of my paycheck, what does he care????? If I'm not here, he won't have to buy me food, movie tickets, or whatever, there is the difference in money. I guess the maid and chef will be gone. I'll let you know when I'm leaving. Thaks for being the one place I can get this off my chest!