Well I picked easy child/difficult child up and asked him how it went and he told me. It seems this psycologist is making a diagnosis of his own even though we already have one by a Psychiatrist. He asked my son all manner of questions that easy child/difficult child answered freely without concern for his privacy or job safety. This is information which by law he does not have to divulge and which I had advised him not to give out or at very least not to emphasise. He told them his birth famly history when I told him to just say that he was adopted and that what little information he has was schechy and unreliable. Instead he told them that he thought that mental illness ran in his family. He told tham about being in alcohol rehab instead of putting the emphisis on the Psyc admit. He told them all the medications he was on from which this guy can now draw conclusions that might not be accurate. UG! I just want to shake my son. Why do I even bother???? I now think it is impossible to protect adult Aspies from themselves and consequently from others. They never really learn that people have agendas that might not be in their best intrest. My stomach is in a knot. I know I just have to let what will be, be but this really stinks.