I wanted today to be calm. I told him to clean up his toys and we'd go swimming. He just threw everything in the toy room and put his suit on. So i made him pick it all up. He started freaking out about it an hour ago and still won't calm down. Since he won't go to his room I went to mine. He got a hammer from the kitchen And started hitting the door with it! =-O Obviously we're not going swimming now but he doesn't get that its his fault we're not going. He calms down then asks to go again. Then freaks out when I say no. Uh you Just hammered my bedroom door. We aren't going anywhere. What am I supposed to do? Its the last day before school starts. I just wanted calm. Until now its been one of our best days for a while.