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10 y/o girl, ODD, Borderline (BPD), and/or something else???
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<blockquote data-quote="Caribbeangirl4ev" data-source="post: 569793" data-attributes="member: 15685"><p>So i am turning 17 in less than 3 weeks and she will be 11 in less than 3 months. She has been seeing an art therapist for a few months or so and isnt on any medication. I dont know if this helps, but when she was a baby she had kawasaki's disease and also hated her carseat with a passion... Would be crying and screaming as soon as she was put into it... And we both have daddy issues. She never got to get to know him because he left before she was born and was a jerk the few times she saw him. He's a dead beat.... I just stopped to speaking to him myself after 3 years of verbal/emotional abuse 5 months ago(which i just started talking about to my mom then; still am struggling with blaming myself; my sister doesnt know about any of that).</p><p>My mom has done research before on her own and says that my sister matches the behavior of children with ODD. Our father's side of the family has a history of of ADHD and literally almost everyone of them have bipolar disorder.</p><p>No one in public often see her behave as she does at home(so they dont believe it and shes an amazing liar unless its not something bad thats being asked like "did you clean your room today?") and our mom is tired of the drama(my sister and i tend to fight quite a bit) so she doesnt even want to hear it anymore.</p><p>Oh and once after she made our mom crazy(maybe a week or two ago) i asked her to explain what had happened and told her where she was wrong, she got very upset and said she wasnt. She truly doesnt believe that what she does is wrong, feels its the fault of whomever she is mad at, and has admitted it before. But our mom has told me that my sister, after a big fight, has cried and said that shes sorry and doesnt know why she acts that way and that she cant control it. I havent heard of that happening for a while though.</p><p>Like i said before, she has terrible days, terrible moments, and good days and moments too. It all varies and she used to get away with it all. Especially with our grandma, but her and our mom have tried to stand their ground and be firm much more now which has helped me a lot. My grandma and i used to fight about that a lot because she always took my sisters side(even when she was wrong) but now we're great.</p><p>I hope this helps!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Caribbeangirl4ev, post: 569793, member: 15685"] So i am turning 17 in less than 3 weeks and she will be 11 in less than 3 months. She has been seeing an art therapist for a few months or so and isnt on any medication. I dont know if this helps, but when she was a baby she had kawasaki's disease and also hated her carseat with a passion... Would be crying and screaming as soon as she was put into it... And we both have daddy issues. She never got to get to know him because he left before she was born and was a jerk the few times she saw him. He's a dead beat.... I just stopped to speaking to him myself after 3 years of verbal/emotional abuse 5 months ago(which i just started talking about to my mom then; still am struggling with blaming myself; my sister doesnt know about any of that). My mom has done research before on her own and says that my sister matches the behavior of children with ODD. Our father's side of the family has a history of of ADHD and literally almost everyone of them have bipolar disorder. No one in public often see her behave as she does at home(so they dont believe it and shes an amazing liar unless its not something bad thats being asked like "did you clean your room today?") and our mom is tired of the drama(my sister and i tend to fight quite a bit) so she doesnt even want to hear it anymore. Oh and once after she made our mom crazy(maybe a week or two ago) i asked her to explain what had happened and told her where she was wrong, she got very upset and said she wasnt. She truly doesnt believe that what she does is wrong, feels its the fault of whomever she is mad at, and has admitted it before. But our mom has told me that my sister, after a big fight, has cried and said that shes sorry and doesnt know why she acts that way and that she cant control it. I havent heard of that happening for a while though. Like i said before, she has terrible days, terrible moments, and good days and moments too. It all varies and she used to get away with it all. Especially with our grandma, but her and our mom have tried to stand their ground and be firm much more now which has helped me a lot. My grandma and i used to fight about that a lot because she always took my sisters side(even when she was wrong) but now we're great. I hope this helps! [/QUOTE]
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