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10 y/o girl, ODD, Borderline (BPD), and/or something else???
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<blockquote data-quote="Caribbeangirl4ev" data-source="post: 569820" data-attributes="member: 15685"><p>For me, it depends. If its between her and my mom, i know better than to get into it... I let her try to calm her down as best she can and stay wherever im at at the time, whether its on the couch or in my room and just wait until its over and then go see if my mom is ok. Sometimes she is crying so i just go sit in the room with her, let her vent, and, if its been long enough and ok, give her a hug.</p><p>If its between her and i and our mom is home, i tend to just go and tell her. If shes not home, i usually try to just give in so that she calms down(how its been recently) but i used to give into the temptation. Didnt learn the lesson and control until this year.. Our mom tries to not leave us at home alone often though because of how its been in the past. If we are, its for a few hours or less after school when she can just go outside and be distracted playing with friends. I used to always give in and there would be bad consequences from that.</p><p>Sometimes shes out of control though when we're alone(not often) and i'll call our mom and try to help the tension of the situation go down.</p><p>Im definitely not perfect though. I give in sometimes like with the meaningless little things(mostly when shes home) and get really agitated by it all. Afterward, if it puts me in a bad mood, i'll listen to music and try to just get over it. Most of the time its just little things too like my sister giving drama, an attitude, and not wanting to listen. Maybe once a day or less(mostly when its time for bed or something along those lines) will be the more out of control moments. My mom does her best and we can even go a few days or, if we're really lucky, more without the out of control and then we can get the exact opposite and get it like twice or so in a day.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Caribbeangirl4ev, post: 569820, member: 15685"] For me, it depends. If its between her and my mom, i know better than to get into it... I let her try to calm her down as best she can and stay wherever im at at the time, whether its on the couch or in my room and just wait until its over and then go see if my mom is ok. Sometimes she is crying so i just go sit in the room with her, let her vent, and, if its been long enough and ok, give her a hug. If its between her and i and our mom is home, i tend to just go and tell her. If shes not home, i usually try to just give in so that she calms down(how its been recently) but i used to give into the temptation. Didnt learn the lesson and control until this year.. Our mom tries to not leave us at home alone often though because of how its been in the past. If we are, its for a few hours or less after school when she can just go outside and be distracted playing with friends. I used to always give in and there would be bad consequences from that. Sometimes shes out of control though when we're alone(not often) and i'll call our mom and try to help the tension of the situation go down. Im definitely not perfect though. I give in sometimes like with the meaningless little things(mostly when shes home) and get really agitated by it all. Afterward, if it puts me in a bad mood, i'll listen to music and try to just get over it. Most of the time its just little things too like my sister giving drama, an attitude, and not wanting to listen. Maybe once a day or less(mostly when its time for bed or something along those lines) will be the more out of control moments. My mom does her best and we can even go a few days or, if we're really lucky, more without the out of control and then we can get the exact opposite and get it like twice or so in a day. [/QUOTE]
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