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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 316589" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">Nothing worse than feeling "mom" doesn't love you & chooses others, things, etc before you. That "mom" has abandoned you.</span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">Saying that, when my tweedles were placed with my me & my husband we had many of the same issues. We never said anything negative about bio mom (until they were much older & more aware of her as a person & in therapy); took lots of extra time to nurture both kt & wm. </span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">You difficult child needs to be built up emotionally; he is lovable. Until he believes that he will struggle with obsession with mom. </span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">The book Parenting the Hurt Child, while it's for adoptive/foster parents, offers many ways to nurture that difficult child won't even be aware of. </span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">I'm not sure if the book has been updated but holding therapies have been outlawed in many states. I'm suggesting this for the nurturing ideas. It's amazing what an "abandoned" child will present.</span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'">Good luck in your journey with your son. Keep us updated.</span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic'"></span></span></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 316589, member: 393"] [B][SIZE=3][FONT=Century Gothic]Nothing worse than feeling "mom" doesn't love you & chooses others, things, etc before you. That "mom" has abandoned you. Saying that, when my tweedles were placed with my me & my husband we had many of the same issues. We never said anything negative about bio mom (until they were much older & more aware of her as a person & in therapy); took lots of extra time to nurture both kt & wm. You difficult child needs to be built up emotionally; he is lovable. Until he believes that he will struggle with obsession with mom. The book Parenting the Hurt Child, while it's for adoptive/foster parents, offers many ways to nurture that difficult child won't even be aware of. I'm not sure if the book has been updated but holding therapies have been outlawed in many states. I'm suggesting this for the nurturing ideas. It's amazing what an "abandoned" child will present. Good luck in your journey with your son. Keep us updated. [/FONT][/SIZE][/B] [/QUOTE]
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