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13 year old son with repeat behavior issues at school
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 708640" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am sorry they treated your son and you so horribly! What they did was truly wrong. They waited until Monday to inform you so that they could blindside you and give you no other options or legal recourse. I seriously wonder what was really going on there that your son doesn't know to tell you about. There are just some things that make me wonder if something really wrong wasn't done by the teachers or staff. </p><p></p><p>The whole bit about high IQ and test scores making him not eligible for an IEP is just pure, unadulterated bovine manure!! It has NOTHING to do with him needing an IEP! I heard that song and dance for each of my kids. By the time they told me this with my 3rd child they were totally shocked when I broke out in giggles. I told them to give it up because it was the funniest, silliest excuse for not giving an IEP or 504 that they could try. Didn't they know by now that it wasn't going to work? Hadn't we been down this road with my other kids?? Then I suggested we all get serious and work out his IEP and stop wasting each others' time. </p><p></p><p>They really didn't know what to do with me by that point. But honestly, it was my 3rd kid. The same people at the meetings. The same tired excuses. Do they give out a handbook of "Bovine Excrement Excuses for Denying IEPs" to school administrators the same way our Difficult Children get those handbooks of what to say while trying to make us feel guilty? </p><p></p><p>Call the people SWOT suggested and get an advocate. Or if you need help finding one, send me a private message (I think it is now called starting a conversation) and I will do some searching to find some resources for you. This is different than having your sister come to the meetings. This is someone professional who knows the laws and your rights and who is there to fight for YOU.</p><p></p><p>Also go to the wrightslaw website (google wrightslaw) and check out their special education forums to learn more about the process and your rights and what you can and should do. </p><p></p><p>I am truly sorry that this school was so awful to you and your son. Just making him leave without letting him say goodbye or anything was truly wrong. How DARE they claim to be "special education" when they are obviously only interested in money and children who fit into their little molds. I can only imagine what they would have done with my oldest. Wiz would have made them miserable. And had fun while he did it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 708640, member: 1233"] I am sorry they treated your son and you so horribly! What they did was truly wrong. They waited until Monday to inform you so that they could blindside you and give you no other options or legal recourse. I seriously wonder what was really going on there that your son doesn't know to tell you about. There are just some things that make me wonder if something really wrong wasn't done by the teachers or staff. The whole bit about high IQ and test scores making him not eligible for an IEP is just pure, unadulterated bovine manure!! It has NOTHING to do with him needing an IEP! I heard that song and dance for each of my kids. By the time they told me this with my 3rd child they were totally shocked when I broke out in giggles. I told them to give it up because it was the funniest, silliest excuse for not giving an IEP or 504 that they could try. Didn't they know by now that it wasn't going to work? Hadn't we been down this road with my other kids?? Then I suggested we all get serious and work out his IEP and stop wasting each others' time. They really didn't know what to do with me by that point. But honestly, it was my 3rd kid. The same people at the meetings. The same tired excuses. Do they give out a handbook of "Bovine Excrement Excuses for Denying IEPs" to school administrators the same way our Difficult Children get those handbooks of what to say while trying to make us feel guilty? Call the people SWOT suggested and get an advocate. Or if you need help finding one, send me a private message (I think it is now called starting a conversation) and I will do some searching to find some resources for you. This is different than having your sister come to the meetings. This is someone professional who knows the laws and your rights and who is there to fight for YOU. Also go to the wrightslaw website (google wrightslaw) and check out their special education forums to learn more about the process and your rights and what you can and should do. I am truly sorry that this school was so awful to you and your son. Just making him leave without letting him say goodbye or anything was truly wrong. How DARE they claim to be "special education" when they are obviously only interested in money and children who fit into their little molds. I can only imagine what they would have done with my oldest. Wiz would have made them miserable. And had fun while he did it. [/QUOTE]
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