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14 year old "dating" 19 year old - UHGHGH!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 270895" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Ya know - I don't care if your daughter is gay or not. </p><p> </p><p>She's FOURTEEN. NOT sixteen - NOT eighteen - not TWENTY ONE - </p><p> </p><p>SHE IS FOURTEEN - what will she have to look forward to if she gets to do all this adult stuff now? </p><p> </p><p>I'm not a old fuddy - I'm not unrealistic - I think at 14 going after sexual/romantic relationships over the internet is unhealthy. </p><p> </p><p>I also think that if the 19 year old has a brain in her head she'll tell your daughter that it's just not going to work out - and never tell her why. She really needs to be a grown up about this and not baby and petty since you already texted her. </p><p> </p><p>I think there is a bigger problem with your daughter (gay or not) that is looming on your horizon. I think it's great you have a close relationship - but maybe it's time to have a talk about what is healthy and unhealthy in a relationship. </p><p> </p><p>We have a gay and lesbian alliance here that is hugely helpful to anyone who is gay and looking for advice from peers who will really be able to help them understand that you as a parent are NOT being the nuclear bomb on her relationships - it may even help her find other friends locally who will be able to guide her in a more appropriate relationship. (worlds longest run on sentence) </p><p> </p><p>No more internet for a LONG time unsupervised for sure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 270895, member: 4964"] Ya know - I don't care if your daughter is gay or not. She's FOURTEEN. NOT sixteen - NOT eighteen - not TWENTY ONE - SHE IS FOURTEEN - what will she have to look forward to if she gets to do all this adult stuff now? I'm not a old fuddy - I'm not unrealistic - I think at 14 going after sexual/romantic relationships over the internet is unhealthy. I also think that if the 19 year old has a brain in her head she'll tell your daughter that it's just not going to work out - and never tell her why. She really needs to be a grown up about this and not baby and petty since you already texted her. I think there is a bigger problem with your daughter (gay or not) that is looming on your horizon. I think it's great you have a close relationship - but maybe it's time to have a talk about what is healthy and unhealthy in a relationship. We have a gay and lesbian alliance here that is hugely helpful to anyone who is gay and looking for advice from peers who will really be able to help them understand that you as a parent are NOT being the nuclear bomb on her relationships - it may even help her find other friends locally who will be able to guide her in a more appropriate relationship. (worlds longest run on sentence) No more internet for a LONG time unsupervised for sure. [/QUOTE]
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