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14 year old "dating" 19 year old - UHGHGH!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 270984" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>Regardless of what state your in sex with anyone under 16 years old will get you prison time that fact alone should be enough to get this 19yo to back off! The hard part is going to be getting difficult child to go along with this, I'll tell what worked for me and hopefully something here can help you.</p><p></p><p>When I was 15yo my boyfriend was a 28yo biker (I was sure I loved him later discovered it was the bike not him LOL) anyway a very nice and wise biker lady who was in her 40's pulled me aside and explained the legal consequences for him if our relationship were discovered by the authorities. She didn't make me feel like a child or get judgemental she kept it to just the facts, talking to her I understood that if I truly loved him and wanted what was best for him I needed to walk away until I was above the age of consent. I looked him up when I was 17yo (almost 18) and when I saw him on that goofy "rice burner" there wasn't any attraction for this old guy at all. I did date the 19yo who he sold his Harley to for a couple months though till I got over my motorcycle phase -having met the cutest drummer!</p><p></p><p>OK enough with my little trip down memory lane and I'll slip back into mother Grizzly bear thinking in my opinion kids unsupervised on the internet is like a monkey with a gun! Any adult looking to "hook up" with a kid on the internet is a preditor. My poor kids having a control freek for a mom but that's who I am, so they have to deal with me looking over their shoulder when online and me being allowed to meet parents of kids they hang with.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 270984, member: 7170"] Regardless of what state your in sex with anyone under 16 years old will get you prison time that fact alone should be enough to get this 19yo to back off! The hard part is going to be getting difficult child to go along with this, I'll tell what worked for me and hopefully something here can help you. When I was 15yo my boyfriend was a 28yo biker (I was sure I loved him later discovered it was the bike not him LOL) anyway a very nice and wise biker lady who was in her 40's pulled me aside and explained the legal consequences for him if our relationship were discovered by the authorities. She didn't make me feel like a child or get judgemental she kept it to just the facts, talking to her I understood that if I truly loved him and wanted what was best for him I needed to walk away until I was above the age of consent. I looked him up when I was 17yo (almost 18) and when I saw him on that goofy "rice burner" there wasn't any attraction for this old guy at all. I did date the 19yo who he sold his Harley to for a couple months though till I got over my motorcycle phase -having met the cutest drummer! OK enough with my little trip down memory lane and I'll slip back into mother Grizzly bear thinking in my opinion kids unsupervised on the internet is like a monkey with a gun! Any adult looking to "hook up" with a kid on the internet is a preditor. My poor kids having a control freek for a mom but that's who I am, so they have to deal with me looking over their shoulder when online and me being allowed to meet parents of kids they hang with. [/QUOTE]
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