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14 year old "dating" 19 year old - UHGHGH!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 271110" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Some therapists are very liberal and give the kids ridiculous feedback and us bad advice. So you have to pick and choose. One therapist told me that my daughter took drugs because I didn't trust her. I needed to trust her more. My daughter threw this advice in my face until I shut her up by telling her that I didn't care what he said, he was wrong. That I would trust her when she was worthy of trust. I *did* trust her until she took drugs.</p><p></p><p>I will be blunt: There is no way Jose my fourteen year old (I have one who is almost thirteen) would be allowed to go online without my being allowed to check her history and her MySpace and Facebook etc. I get the passwords. If I found out some older person was stalking her in any way, I would have been tougher than you. And the computer would have been off limits to daughter for a while. And I'd be checking her online comings and goings a long time after that incident. A nineteen year old can seriously hurt a fourteen year old, including luring her away from home. I don't think her sexual orientation is an issue here. Her age and maturity level is.</p><p></p><p>If she gets suicidal at any time, call 911. Don't let her manipulate you with that. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 271110, member: 1550"] Some therapists are very liberal and give the kids ridiculous feedback and us bad advice. So you have to pick and choose. One therapist told me that my daughter took drugs because I didn't trust her. I needed to trust her more. My daughter threw this advice in my face until I shut her up by telling her that I didn't care what he said, he was wrong. That I would trust her when she was worthy of trust. I *did* trust her until she took drugs. I will be blunt: There is no way Jose my fourteen year old (I have one who is almost thirteen) would be allowed to go online without my being allowed to check her history and her MySpace and Facebook etc. I get the passwords. If I found out some older person was stalking her in any way, I would have been tougher than you. And the computer would have been off limits to daughter for a while. And I'd be checking her online comings and goings a long time after that incident. A nineteen year old can seriously hurt a fourteen year old, including luring her away from home. I don't think her sexual orientation is an issue here. Her age and maturity level is. If she gets suicidal at any time, call 911. Don't let her manipulate you with that. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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