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14 year old step-son is scaring me
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 283275" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I would have probably reported the molestation regardless of what anyone said because I'd be afraid he had molested a lot more than we knew and that he'd do it again. The child we adopted who repeatedly molested my younger kids (who were afraid to tell me and hub because he threatened to kill us all if they did) also perped on me when I was sleeping. I forgot to mention that because it was very minor to me compared to what he did to the kids. I wasn't even awake, but it was alarming that he had the guts to to do it and he did it in front of the other kids, laughing (I had fallen asleep in the living room and I sleep like the dead). That sent a scary message to the other kids: "He can even do it to Mom!!!" Kids rarely tell the full disclosure of their molestation experiences until long after the perp is gone. They are both too traumatized and ashamed. It took us a long time, plus this perp to tell the truth in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) (with no remorse or understanding of why he had molested anyone and no memory of being molested himself). He's a scary kid--wouldn't shock me if he was on the news one day as a murderer.</p><p></p><p>Although no child chooses to be bad, I do think some are heading toward psychopathic behavior. There are some things that can't be accepted in society--our son who molested the two younger kids (and others in his foster homes) could not be out in society doing that, plus killing animals. Obviouisly some horrible things happened to him--same with Ted Bundy and Charles Manson--but society can't accept everything just because bad things happened.</p><p></p><p>I would never allow this kid in my house again. I learned the hard way that you really can't know the extent of what a child who is that sick may be doing to the healthy kids. They get jealous of the healthy kids and want to make them sick too, and they don't have a conscience to put the breaks on.</p><p></p><p>As one who has been there/done that, I would not give this child the benefit of the doubt like we did. You need to protect the innocent people from him and let him hopefully heal (if he can heal) out of a family setting or at least away from YOUR family. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 283275, member: 1550"] Well, I would have probably reported the molestation regardless of what anyone said because I'd be afraid he had molested a lot more than we knew and that he'd do it again. The child we adopted who repeatedly molested my younger kids (who were afraid to tell me and hub because he threatened to kill us all if they did) also perped on me when I was sleeping. I forgot to mention that because it was very minor to me compared to what he did to the kids. I wasn't even awake, but it was alarming that he had the guts to to do it and he did it in front of the other kids, laughing (I had fallen asleep in the living room and I sleep like the dead). That sent a scary message to the other kids: "He can even do it to Mom!!!" Kids rarely tell the full disclosure of their molestation experiences until long after the perp is gone. They are both too traumatized and ashamed. It took us a long time, plus this perp to tell the truth in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) (with no remorse or understanding of why he had molested anyone and no memory of being molested himself). He's a scary kid--wouldn't shock me if he was on the news one day as a murderer. Although no child chooses to be bad, I do think some are heading toward psychopathic behavior. There are some things that can't be accepted in society--our son who molested the two younger kids (and others in his foster homes) could not be out in society doing that, plus killing animals. Obviouisly some horrible things happened to him--same with Ted Bundy and Charles Manson--but society can't accept everything just because bad things happened. I would never allow this kid in my house again. I learned the hard way that you really can't know the extent of what a child who is that sick may be doing to the healthy kids. They get jealous of the healthy kids and want to make them sick too, and they don't have a conscience to put the breaks on. As one who has been there/done that, I would not give this child the benefit of the doubt like we did. You need to protect the innocent people from him and let him hopefully heal (if he can heal) out of a family setting or at least away from YOUR family. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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