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19 year old pot smoker
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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 539943" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>This does not mean you are not a great family. Like most of us, we did the very best we could. We offered love and support etc. Kids make choices that we cannot control. This is why a 12 step would be very helpful. I did not find an Alanon that worked for me, but Families Anonymous is a 12 step-and is much like this group. I have learned what changes I can make to begin to have happiness again and also begun to understand that I am not alone. I did not cause this problem and I do not have to live in shame and embarressment. There are no perfect families! You are not alone. I got counselor recommendations from some of my FA friends-very helpful because they knew people who understood mu daughters issues. I am sorry that husband is not on the same page as you are about getting help, however, if your son does not respect your home and uses in your home and has paraphenalia there, I would also be thinking about him moving out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 539943, member: 11001"] This does not mean you are not a great family. Like most of us, we did the very best we could. We offered love and support etc. Kids make choices that we cannot control. This is why a 12 step would be very helpful. I did not find an Alanon that worked for me, but Families Anonymous is a 12 step-and is much like this group. I have learned what changes I can make to begin to have happiness again and also begun to understand that I am not alone. I did not cause this problem and I do not have to live in shame and embarressment. There are no perfect families! You are not alone. I got counselor recommendations from some of my FA friends-very helpful because they knew people who understood mu daughters issues. I am sorry that husband is not on the same page as you are about getting help, however, if your son does not respect your home and uses in your home and has paraphenalia there, I would also be thinking about him moving out. [/QUOTE]
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