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19 year old son kicked out for the 4th time
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 452798" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Welcome to the board last straw.</p><p></p><p>Sounds like you've reached the point of practicing detachment. Which from what you've told us sounds like it's all you can do at this point. </p><p></p><p>You have every right to live your life in safety, stress free, and happy. Your son is an adult, he can take it from here or not as he chooses. Sounds like there is a drug / alcohol issue here. Which means you'll have to weigh any help you give to try not to enable the behavior. The more natural consequences he faces due to the behavior the better the odds of him seeking real help. With biodad having committed suicide, odds are there may be some undiagnosed mental illness on that side.......but again your son will have to want to seek help and an evaluation ect. </p><p></p><p>That's what stinks about parenting adult kids. What's good about it is that you can decide what you will / won't tolerate and make choices to make your own life better. </p><p></p><p>Glad you found us.</p><p></p><p>(hugs)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 452798, member: 84"] Welcome to the board last straw. Sounds like you've reached the point of practicing detachment. Which from what you've told us sounds like it's all you can do at this point. You have every right to live your life in safety, stress free, and happy. Your son is an adult, he can take it from here or not as he chooses. Sounds like there is a drug / alcohol issue here. Which means you'll have to weigh any help you give to try not to enable the behavior. The more natural consequences he faces due to the behavior the better the odds of him seeking real help. With biodad having committed suicide, odds are there may be some undiagnosed mental illness on that side.......but again your son will have to want to seek help and an evaluation ect. That's what stinks about parenting adult kids. What's good about it is that you can decide what you will / won't tolerate and make choices to make your own life better. Glad you found us. (hugs) [/QUOTE]
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