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19 year old son kicked out for the 4th time
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<blockquote data-quote="teri" data-source="post: 459026" data-attributes="member: 12764"><p>Are you describing my son? or are you describing my son?...seems like we're talking about the same kid. </p><p></p><p>I'm in a very same situation and it makes me cry so very often. I just want to let you know that you are not alone.</p><p></p><p>We deal with what we deal with day in and day out and it seems so exhausting!</p><p></p><p>I find it comforting to talk to people who have been through it in the past. I keep a list of parents of a 25-40 year old kids who was troubled at 18-19 and I call or have coffee with them when I need to talk. I find that when I started talking there are some people that are willing to listen and support if you get to the right person. And that is what I need. At the end of the day I will be the one making decision and "feel" it.</p><p></p><p>I can not tell you exactly what to do. I would kick him out for the 5th time and pray and hope I will not take him back any time soon since it won't do him any good. Meanwhile, I would find myself some good friends or some fun activities to do for me. Hopefully it will help me feel better about me and give me juice to go on or even make a better decision next time.</p><p></p><p>These years will go away, just like the childhood years, and the journey is painful. At least, fill the time up with some adequate quality time or peaceful time for yourself. I think it helps a lot.</p><p></p><p>Sincerely,</p><p>Teri</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="teri, post: 459026, member: 12764"] Are you describing my son? or are you describing my son?...seems like we're talking about the same kid. I'm in a very same situation and it makes me cry so very often. I just want to let you know that you are not alone. We deal with what we deal with day in and day out and it seems so exhausting! I find it comforting to talk to people who have been through it in the past. I keep a list of parents of a 25-40 year old kids who was troubled at 18-19 and I call or have coffee with them when I need to talk. I find that when I started talking there are some people that are willing to listen and support if you get to the right person. And that is what I need. At the end of the day I will be the one making decision and "feel" it. I can not tell you exactly what to do. I would kick him out for the 5th time and pray and hope I will not take him back any time soon since it won't do him any good. Meanwhile, I would find myself some good friends or some fun activities to do for me. Hopefully it will help me feel better about me and give me juice to go on or even make a better decision next time. These years will go away, just like the childhood years, and the journey is painful. At least, fill the time up with some adequate quality time or peaceful time for yourself. I think it helps a lot. Sincerely, Teri [/QUOTE]
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