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<blockquote data-quote="Calamity Jane" data-source="post: 521610" data-attributes="member: 13882"><p>Sam,</p><p>Don't let him make you feel guilty for taking action and setting boundaries by telling you it's your "superego" and you always have to win. Don't let him convince you that "everybody is doing it" either...these are just manipulation tactics to get you off message and off balance. You may want to consider getting a full spectrum drug test, sold at most pharmacies, to get an idea of what he is actually using, and what the levels are. The best time to test is first thing in the morning, and don't tell him when you're going to do it. If he outright refuses or gives you a hard time, you can be pretty sure he's either smoking a whole lot, or doing other stuff, too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calamity Jane, post: 521610, member: 13882"] Sam, Don't let him make you feel guilty for taking action and setting boundaries by telling you it's your "superego" and you always have to win. Don't let him convince you that "everybody is doing it" either...these are just manipulation tactics to get you off message and off balance. You may want to consider getting a full spectrum drug test, sold at most pharmacies, to get an idea of what he is actually using, and what the levels are. The best time to test is first thing in the morning, and don't tell him when you're going to do it. If he outright refuses or gives you a hard time, you can be pretty sure he's either smoking a whole lot, or doing other stuff, too. [/QUOTE]
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