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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 521975" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Be sure he really has a job. Seems convenient that he suddenly had a job when you were threatening to toss him out. Hate to be cynical, but I lived with a drug abuser. </p><p></p><p>There is no way my daughter was going to be allowed to smoke pot in our house; not in this lifetime or on this planet. in my opinion that is enabling. Again, you don't know that pot is all he is using. If he is sleeping all the time, I am guessing he is using more than pot. My daughter would be up all night, sleep all day until we had to ask her to leave. I believe that if there are drugs in your house (say, a noisy party prompts a call to the cops by a neighbor) you are also liable for having those illicit drugs in your home. You don't deserve that. You deserve a peaceful, quiet life. Your son is making his own problems and needs to grow up.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is make them leave. If they stay at home and do nothing, but have good food and a warm bed, what is the motivation for changing? JMO. ((((Hugs)))). I know how hard it is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 521975, member: 1550"] Be sure he really has a job. Seems convenient that he suddenly had a job when you were threatening to toss him out. Hate to be cynical, but I lived with a drug abuser. There is no way my daughter was going to be allowed to smoke pot in our house; not in this lifetime or on this planet. in my opinion that is enabling. Again, you don't know that pot is all he is using. If he is sleeping all the time, I am guessing he is using more than pot. My daughter would be up all night, sleep all day until we had to ask her to leave. I believe that if there are drugs in your house (say, a noisy party prompts a call to the cops by a neighbor) you are also liable for having those illicit drugs in your home. You don't deserve that. You deserve a peaceful, quiet life. Your son is making his own problems and needs to grow up. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is make them leave. If they stay at home and do nothing, but have good food and a warm bed, what is the motivation for changing? JMO. ((((Hugs)))). I know how hard it is. [/QUOTE]
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