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<blockquote data-quote="Calamity Jane" data-source="post: 522119" data-attributes="member: 13882"><p>Sam,</p><p>May I also suggest you get your house alarmed, if you've not already done so. You and your daughter could have the code, but I wouldn't give it to difficult child. He needs to be out of the house while you're at work, so you could set the alarm. Get the 1st floor windows alarmed as well. It's an expense, I know, but well worth it for your peace of mind. Even when you go to bed at night, you have no idea if he's going to show up with some friends while you're sleeping. You have no idea who he's <em>really</em> hanging around with, and next time, he'll be more clever and wait till you're totally out of the house and on the road before he lets his friends come over. Lock up any valuables, and if you have liquor in the house, remove that, too. Once you get the alarm, you can set it while you're gone, but you won't be able to do that if he's home sleeping when you leave for work, so you'd have to make a rule that he's out of the house by the time you leave, or by the time your daughter leaves. Many alarm companies also offer security camera applications where you can view what's going on in your house from either your phone or your computer. He's not shown himself to be trustworthy so far, so why keep giving him your trust?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Calamity Jane, post: 522119, member: 13882"] Sam, May I also suggest you get your house alarmed, if you've not already done so. You and your daughter could have the code, but I wouldn't give it to difficult child. He needs to be out of the house while you're at work, so you could set the alarm. Get the 1st floor windows alarmed as well. It's an expense, I know, but well worth it for your peace of mind. Even when you go to bed at night, you have no idea if he's going to show up with some friends while you're sleeping. You have no idea who he's [I]really[/I] hanging around with, and next time, he'll be more clever and wait till you're totally out of the house and on the road before he lets his friends come over. Lock up any valuables, and if you have liquor in the house, remove that, too. Once you get the alarm, you can set it while you're gone, but you won't be able to do that if he's home sleeping when you leave for work, so you'd have to make a rule that he's out of the house by the time you leave, or by the time your daughter leaves. Many alarm companies also offer security camera applications where you can view what's going on in your house from either your phone or your computer. He's not shown himself to be trustworthy so far, so why keep giving him your trust? [/QUOTE]
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