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19 yo nephew with low self esteem
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<blockquote data-quote="Sbk" data-source="post: 684527" data-attributes="member: 20235"><p>Thank you so much for responding !! I am supposed to create the rules and be consistent - his parents were not and they want me to be the authoritative one. I was worried about him working as I would like him focusing on his school work at least for this first semester. I am worried he's driven high even though he denies it. Since a pee test is positive for about a month, I thought I would give him a month without requiring him to prove to me he's not using - since I have no way of determining if he is driving high. He can pee test himself or figure out another way he can prove to me he's not high to drive my car. My car is essentially my only leverage with him. He's too old to ground etc.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sbk, post: 684527, member: 20235"] Thank you so much for responding !! I am supposed to create the rules and be consistent - his parents were not and they want me to be the authoritative one. I was worried about him working as I would like him focusing on his school work at least for this first semester. I am worried he's driven high even though he denies it. Since a pee test is positive for about a month, I thought I would give him a month without requiring him to prove to me he's not using - since I have no way of determining if he is driving high. He can pee test himself or figure out another way he can prove to me he's not high to drive my car. My car is essentially my only leverage with him. He's too old to ground etc. [/QUOTE]
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