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19 yr son who steals.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 719116" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Many of us have had this. Your son is a thief. Many of our kids are. You have toprotect yourself from him. Suggestions...</p><p></p><p>If you dont want to throw him out right now you must shield him from all your finances and lock up your valuables. All of them. You need to inconvience yourself because of him, shut down your accounts (ALL of them) and get new accounts then notify all the services that you have pull money automatically from your account about your new accounts. To be safe from son, you have no other option. None.</p><p></p><p>Stop using that Apple ap that gives him information. Before you change aything make sure this ap is no longer spewing your info to son. He wont stop usung it even if he deletes it. He eill reliad it. He wont pay you back. It is not going to happen. You know this, even though it hurts.</p><p></p><p>Your son is in a high level of thievery to have the gall to keep using your credit cards and bank accounts. Block him. For pity sake, never give him passwords of anything. Make them impossible to figure out. Stop paying his cell phone bills, car insurance, everything. He owes you, not the other way around. He will be angry at you? Too bad for him. Make him face consequences.</p><p></p><p>I would have turned him into the police by now. I feel a strong need for my kids to know that if you break the law, bad stuff happens. Your son needs to see this.</p><p>He is on his way to stealing from strangers, if he hasnt already. He will go to prison young if he keeps stealing. Does he maybe use drugs?</p><p></p><p>I am sorry. If this sounds harsh it is because I am angry for you...for what your son does to you. I am probably more angry than you are. </p><p></p><p>I hope you stop your son from abusing you and your money. Yes, its a pain in the neck, but you must change all your financial interests plus keep new ones locked in a strong lock box. It is always sad when we can not trust our own kids. Do you have other kids he may steal from? They also need protection. Is a father in the home?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 719116, member: 1550"] Many of us have had this. Your son is a thief. Many of our kids are. You have toprotect yourself from him. Suggestions... If you dont want to throw him out right now you must shield him from all your finances and lock up your valuables. All of them. You need to inconvience yourself because of him, shut down your accounts (ALL of them) and get new accounts then notify all the services that you have pull money automatically from your account about your new accounts. To be safe from son, you have no other option. None. Stop using that Apple ap that gives him information. Before you change aything make sure this ap is no longer spewing your info to son. He wont stop usung it even if he deletes it. He eill reliad it. He wont pay you back. It is not going to happen. You know this, even though it hurts. Your son is in a high level of thievery to have the gall to keep using your credit cards and bank accounts. Block him. For pity sake, never give him passwords of anything. Make them impossible to figure out. Stop paying his cell phone bills, car insurance, everything. He owes you, not the other way around. He will be angry at you? Too bad for him. Make him face consequences. I would have turned him into the police by now. I feel a strong need for my kids to know that if you break the law, bad stuff happens. Your son needs to see this. He is on his way to stealing from strangers, if he hasnt already. He will go to prison young if he keeps stealing. Does he maybe use drugs? I am sorry. If this sounds harsh it is because I am angry for you...for what your son does to you. I am probably more angry than you are. I hope you stop your son from abusing you and your money. Yes, its a pain in the neck, but you must change all your financial interests plus keep new ones locked in a strong lock box. It is always sad when we can not trust our own kids. Do you have other kids he may steal from? They also need protection. Is a father in the home? [/QUOTE]
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