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<blockquote data-quote="ANewLife4Me" data-source="post: 765230" data-attributes="member: 32799"><p>Sending you warm hugs Nomad.. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="❤️" title="Red heart :heart:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/2764.png" data-shortname=":heart:" /> I don’t understand why my sons anger is so great towards his sister as he himself does similar and hurtful things to us. Think it’s because of how much more so she has treated us, shunned us, lied about us, called the cops on us….the list goes on and on. I have to face the truth that it is so much more pleasant when she is not involved in what we are doing at the time. She always wanted to do crazy things that were childlike that none of us were interested in, she would drink and become violent….so much so my son and his wife had to leave in the middle of our BBQ one time. She seems to thrive on getting everyone mad and angry, if she is not having a good time, no one else will either. </p><p></p><p>I agree with facing reality and as you said pains us greatly. No matter how much we tried my daughter too caused much strife and unease in our household. And yet, my son will let me talk about her but, he always comes back with….I don’t understand why you still care about her so much after all she has done to you both. He said about her phone call last week…Mommy you know she was not calling with feelings for either of you but, for herself. I am starting to see he is wise and should have let go long ago as he did. <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="😊" title="Smiling face with smiling eyes :blush:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f60a.png" data-shortname=":blush:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ANewLife4Me, post: 765230, member: 32799"] Sending you warm hugs Nomad.. ❤️ I don’t understand why my sons anger is so great towards his sister as he himself does similar and hurtful things to us. Think it’s because of how much more so she has treated us, shunned us, lied about us, called the cops on us….the list goes on and on. I have to face the truth that it is so much more pleasant when she is not involved in what we are doing at the time. She always wanted to do crazy things that were childlike that none of us were interested in, she would drink and become violent….so much so my son and his wife had to leave in the middle of our BBQ one time. She seems to thrive on getting everyone mad and angry, if she is not having a good time, no one else will either. I agree with facing reality and as you said pains us greatly. No matter how much we tried my daughter too caused much strife and unease in our household. And yet, my son will let me talk about her but, he always comes back with….I don’t understand why you still care about her so much after all she has done to you both. He said about her phone call last week…Mommy you know she was not calling with feelings for either of you but, for herself. I am starting to see he is wise and should have let go long ago as he did. 😊 [/QUOTE]
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