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<blockquote data-quote="robinm1922" data-source="post: 250748" data-attributes="member: 6423"><p>I hope you know and believe in your heart that you did nothing other that create (give birth) your difficult child! You didn't cause his problems at least not directly maybe through heredity but not directly. If that were the case then all of us here would be in the same boat, I won't believe for a minute I did anything to my difficult child that has caused her to be where she is right now. She may have gotten bad genes from her dad and my family but my direct actions have not caused her problems. If anything I am her biggest support right now since her dad (use the terms loosely) has turned his back on her. You keep your head held high and do what they ask, what ever you do don't let them beat you down! You are a strong and capable woman, I believe we are only given as much as we can handle and these things make us stronger.</p><p> </p><p>As far as the kissing, I work with someone who kisses his kids on the lips but it is more a middle east custom thing than anything else. I aim for the cheek but usually get a forehead! My difficult child isn't very affectionate, or at least only when she feels like it.</p><p> </p><p>Being a child who was molested I don't know what to say about your difficult child going with your brother. I was very young when it started happening to me and never told anyone because it was my father (if you can call him that!) and I was suppose to trust him.</p><p>I would do what ever I had to do to keep my difficult child from someone that was abusive, I don't know what that is but I would find it.</p><p>I am certain if push comes to shove your mama bear instincts will come into play, I pray it is enough to keep your difficult child out of harms way.</p><p>If they are "forcing" you to do testing then it only seems right that whoever your difficult child is placed with should be made to do the same testing.</p><p>Can you insist on that? He is still your difficult child or did the courts change that?</p><p> </p><p>I will keep you and your difficult child in my prayers, I hope for every one's sake your difficult child is placed (if not with you) in a home where he will thrive and turn out to be a successful member of society!</p><p>Best of luck,</p><p>Robin</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="robinm1922, post: 250748, member: 6423"] I hope you know and believe in your heart that you did nothing other that create (give birth) your difficult child! You didn't cause his problems at least not directly maybe through heredity but not directly. If that were the case then all of us here would be in the same boat, I won't believe for a minute I did anything to my difficult child that has caused her to be where she is right now. She may have gotten bad genes from her dad and my family but my direct actions have not caused her problems. If anything I am her biggest support right now since her dad (use the terms loosely) has turned his back on her. You keep your head held high and do what they ask, what ever you do don't let them beat you down! You are a strong and capable woman, I believe we are only given as much as we can handle and these things make us stronger. As far as the kissing, I work with someone who kisses his kids on the lips but it is more a middle east custom thing than anything else. I aim for the cheek but usually get a forehead! My difficult child isn't very affectionate, or at least only when she feels like it. Being a child who was molested I don't know what to say about your difficult child going with your brother. I was very young when it started happening to me and never told anyone because it was my father (if you can call him that!) and I was suppose to trust him. I would do what ever I had to do to keep my difficult child from someone that was abusive, I don't know what that is but I would find it. I am certain if push comes to shove your mama bear instincts will come into play, I pray it is enough to keep your difficult child out of harms way. If they are "forcing" you to do testing then it only seems right that whoever your difficult child is placed with should be made to do the same testing. Can you insist on that? He is still your difficult child or did the courts change that? I will keep you and your difficult child in my prayers, I hope for every one's sake your difficult child is placed (if not with you) in a home where he will thrive and turn out to be a successful member of society! Best of luck, Robin [/QUOTE]
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