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<blockquote data-quote="flutterby" data-source="post: 332502" data-attributes="member: 7083"><p>I think husband is not a team player. I think you carry far too much of the load and husband only reacts when something is bothering him. Note I used the word "reacts". He doesn't seem to be proactive.</p><p></p><p>I think he was out of line in both how he reacted to wee difficult child and his lack of action with easy child 2. I think he expects you to carry everything and he just skates by. I think he is really only concerned with how things effect him. I don't think he sees this as a partnership and - brutal honesty here - I get the feeling that if you weren't there, he would have his mom taking care of him, so to speak.</p><p></p><p>But, those are just my thoughts based on one side of events and I'm sure I'm quite biased based on my own experiences (still haven't worked that out in therapy...heh).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="flutterby, post: 332502, member: 7083"] I think husband is not a team player. I think you carry far too much of the load and husband only reacts when something is bothering him. Note I used the word "reacts". He doesn't seem to be proactive. I think he was out of line in both how he reacted to wee difficult child and his lack of action with easy child 2. I think he expects you to carry everything and he just skates by. I think he is really only concerned with how things effect him. I don't think he sees this as a partnership and - brutal honesty here - I get the feeling that if you weren't there, he would have his mom taking care of him, so to speak. But, those are just my thoughts based on one side of events and I'm sure I'm quite biased based on my own experiences (still haven't worked that out in therapy...heh). [/QUOTE]
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