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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 332586" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I'm not. lol But I was asked. husband's mom gave me money and asked me to throw out particular items of easy child 2's wardrobe and replace them because she looks like a homeless tramp and its getting worse and worse and someone needs to do something (I complained about this 4 years ago - when she went out and bought easy child 2 a bunch of clothes behind out backs....hmm....) </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>And yes, I'm having a hard time with the wetting issue. I do not want to contribute to the situation, whatever the problem may be...at the same time, I feel very trapped in what I can feasibly do for her. I have brougth it up to her counselor, and am debating talking to the school counselor, because she needs help there and she's not getting. At this point, I'm just trying to be matter of fact. LIke I do with wee, who pees the bed. It happens, we take care of it. He throws away his pull ups, puts his wet clothes in a particular spot, and is responsible for telling me if his sheets need to be changed, and I pull them and put them in the washer while he's taking a bath in the morning. (if he doesn't tell me, he "deals" (as best a 7 year old can) with his sheets at bedtime). I am trying to just expect the same from easy child 2 at this point.</p><p> </p><p>This incident was waiting too long. But I know she's wet the bed and wet herself at school, and I can't see that being a bunch of cases of all of a sudden at age 12 waiting too long to pee. So I am concerned, but again...what do I do? What <em>can</em> I do.</p><p> </p><p>I guess I just wanted to make sure I'm not being overly biased or expecting too much from husband and am seeing the situations clearly. AS I said, I had made how husband handled the incident with easy child 2 "ok" in my own mind...until the thing came along with wee and then my sister in law, and then its like "<em>this is ok??? WTH?" </em><em>Yet another giant "split" in our supposed "team".</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 332586, member: 1848"] I'm not. lol But I was asked. husband's mom gave me money and asked me to throw out particular items of easy child 2's wardrobe and replace them because she looks like a homeless tramp and its getting worse and worse and someone needs to do something (I complained about this 4 years ago - when she went out and bought easy child 2 a bunch of clothes behind out backs....hmm....) And yes, I'm having a hard time with the wetting issue. I do not want to contribute to the situation, whatever the problem may be...at the same time, I feel very trapped in what I can feasibly do for her. I have brougth it up to her counselor, and am debating talking to the school counselor, because she needs help there and she's not getting. At this point, I'm just trying to be matter of fact. LIke I do with wee, who pees the bed. It happens, we take care of it. He throws away his pull ups, puts his wet clothes in a particular spot, and is responsible for telling me if his sheets need to be changed, and I pull them and put them in the washer while he's taking a bath in the morning. (if he doesn't tell me, he "deals" (as best a 7 year old can) with his sheets at bedtime). I am trying to just expect the same from easy child 2 at this point. This incident was waiting too long. But I know she's wet the bed and wet herself at school, and I can't see that being a bunch of cases of all of a sudden at age 12 waiting too long to pee. So I am concerned, but again...what do I do? What [I]can[/I] I do. I guess I just wanted to make sure I'm not being overly biased or expecting too much from husband and am seeing the situations clearly. AS I said, I had made how husband handled the incident with easy child 2 "ok" in my own mind...until the thing came along with wee and then my sister in law, and then its like "[I]this is ok??? WTH?" [/I][I]Yet another giant "split" in our supposed "team".[/I] [/QUOTE]
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