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22 year old son with ADHD, depression in debt! Wants me to pay off his loans!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 730554" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>How can he get a Payday loan with no job? They make sure the person has income to pay the loan back. Suspicious.</p><p></p><p>I agree with Copa. Sounds like drugs.</p><p></p><p>You can't save him. He has to save himself. I would not pay any bills. He will keep doing it. Whatever he is REALLY doing.</p><p></p><p>I would insist he use social services and I think he needs a Payee to pay his bills for him. Look into it please. Don't beggar yourself. He knows exactly what he is doing.</p><p></p><p>I have always had severe amxiety. 10 per cent of the people do. We work. He can use The Department of Rehab Development to get placed in an appropriate job. I have a high functioning autistic son and that is how he got a job and autistics all have sky high anxiety.</p><p></p><p>My son has a private payee (not family). His checks go there and they pay his bills. He gets money left over but it is just enough to get by with social activities and other things. He has a food card. He asks for nothing from us. We are very proud of him.</p><p></p><p>He also gets disability but often makes too much to get full disability. He has a Case Manager who is a doll. Your son can do many things. If he refuses to, that is on him. My son is 24 and has been independent and on his own since 20.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 730554, member: 1550"] How can he get a Payday loan with no job? They make sure the person has income to pay the loan back. Suspicious. I agree with Copa. Sounds like drugs. You can't save him. He has to save himself. I would not pay any bills. He will keep doing it. Whatever he is REALLY doing. I would insist he use social services and I think he needs a Payee to pay his bills for him. Look into it please. Don't beggar yourself. He knows exactly what he is doing. I have always had severe amxiety. 10 per cent of the people do. We work. He can use The Department of Rehab Development to get placed in an appropriate job. I have a high functioning autistic son and that is how he got a job and autistics all have sky high anxiety. My son has a private payee (not family). His checks go there and they pay his bills. He gets money left over but it is just enough to get by with social activities and other things. He has a food card. He asks for nothing from us. We are very proud of him. He also gets disability but often makes too much to get full disability. He has a Case Manager who is a doll. Your son can do many things. If he refuses to, that is on him. My son is 24 and has been independent and on his own since 20. [/QUOTE]
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