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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 732362" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Hello and so sorry for what you are going through. If you are using your real name, you may want to email runaway bunny to have her change it to something else. This forum can be seen by anyone, even if they do not have an account, and you want to protect your privacy. </p><p></p><p>You are definitely stuck between a rock and a hard place. Sadly, it seems your son is not going to change. He is violent and mentally ill and he is a danger to you and most likely his children as well. It is a shame that innocent babies are involved in his insane life. Where is their mother and/or their mother's parents? Can they assist you in terms of their care.</p><p></p><p>If I were you I would call the police and press charges against your son for the violence he is displaying at your home currently. If there is not a biological mother for these children in the picture and you want custody of them, I would contact a family law attorney to begin that process. I am fearful of how your son might react. From what you describe it seems that he can be extremely threatening and violent. It is probably best, for your own safety, that you not only evict your son but also obtain a restraining order against him.</p><p></p><p>Honest but hard question: do you think your son is a stable parent to these children? If they were to get their own place, wouldn't your grandchildren be in a bad situation with an abusive and unstable father? It sounds like these babies desperately need another guardian. If their mother is not available, then perhaps you or their mom's parents, or a loving foster family. </p><p></p><p>Without legal guardianship unfortunately, you have no right to the children and you have to decide if you are willing to sacrifice your financial well-being and potentially, your life (if your son really goes off the deep end and murders you) in order to keep this all going.</p><p></p><p>It is not easy, we are all here. Keep posting. Sometimes what we have to say can seem hurtful. It isn't intended that way. We have all seen things many more fortunate parents would never dream possible.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 732362, member: 13303"] Hello and so sorry for what you are going through. If you are using your real name, you may want to email runaway bunny to have her change it to something else. This forum can be seen by anyone, even if they do not have an account, and you want to protect your privacy. You are definitely stuck between a rock and a hard place. Sadly, it seems your son is not going to change. He is violent and mentally ill and he is a danger to you and most likely his children as well. It is a shame that innocent babies are involved in his insane life. Where is their mother and/or their mother's parents? Can they assist you in terms of their care. If I were you I would call the police and press charges against your son for the violence he is displaying at your home currently. If there is not a biological mother for these children in the picture and you want custody of them, I would contact a family law attorney to begin that process. I am fearful of how your son might react. From what you describe it seems that he can be extremely threatening and violent. It is probably best, for your own safety, that you not only evict your son but also obtain a restraining order against him. Honest but hard question: do you think your son is a stable parent to these children? If they were to get their own place, wouldn't your grandchildren be in a bad situation with an abusive and unstable father? It sounds like these babies desperately need another guardian. If their mother is not available, then perhaps you or their mom's parents, or a loving foster family. Without legal guardianship unfortunately, you have no right to the children and you have to decide if you are willing to sacrifice your financial well-being and potentially, your life (if your son really goes off the deep end and murders you) in order to keep this all going. It is not easy, we are all here. Keep posting. Sometimes what we have to say can seem hurtful. It isn't intended that way. We have all seen things many more fortunate parents would never dream possible. [/QUOTE]
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