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26 yrs old son.anxiety/worried/many cluster B/ short version.
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<blockquote data-quote="Brokenheart1" data-source="post: 764579" data-attributes="member: 32868"><p>Thank you for replying and giving me some perspective...you are 100% correct. It is his life and his decision. I need to let go! its hard to watch someone hit a wall bloody but I know it's what needs to happen.</p><p>This is a new chapter, we are trying to figure out and though there were small pink flags prior, the last 6 months have been a roller coaster of processing and highlighting his mental health issues. Hearing the Threapist come to this conclusion and putting the puzzle pieces together was a lot to take in. We have one child and this is him and not much family absorbing what this means for our future and him not being in it. We always thought he would grow up or was maybe on the spectrum. Marched to the beat of his own drum. </p><p>The apartment is in our name, in another city and knowing what we know, he won't go easily... the anger, the blame the manipulation. </p><p> Lastly, I do realize and know people have all kinds of issues. I think it's the uncomfortableness of answering the questions to certain people. I know people are trying to be polite and engage. I just dread the questions and try and deflect. I find it exhausting and it reminds me of how far off he is from a " normal young man his age". I find myself noticing other young people and wishing I had a son I could have normal conversation with or a meal...it's a new acceptance that this is my mom life. </p><p>Mom to one<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/alien.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":alien:" title="alien :alien:" data-shortname=":alien:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Brokenheart1, post: 764579, member: 32868"] Thank you for replying and giving me some perspective...you are 100% correct. It is his life and his decision. I need to let go! its hard to watch someone hit a wall bloody but I know it's what needs to happen. This is a new chapter, we are trying to figure out and though there were small pink flags prior, the last 6 months have been a roller coaster of processing and highlighting his mental health issues. Hearing the Threapist come to this conclusion and putting the puzzle pieces together was a lot to take in. We have one child and this is him and not much family absorbing what this means for our future and him not being in it. We always thought he would grow up or was maybe on the spectrum. Marched to the beat of his own drum. The apartment is in our name, in another city and knowing what we know, he won't go easily... the anger, the blame the manipulation. Lastly, I do realize and know people have all kinds of issues. I think it's the uncomfortableness of answering the questions to certain people. I know people are trying to be polite and engage. I just dread the questions and try and deflect. I find it exhausting and it reminds me of how far off he is from a " normal young man his age". I find myself noticing other young people and wishing I had a son I could have normal conversation with or a meal...it's a new acceptance that this is my mom life. Mom to one:alien: [/QUOTE]
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