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30 Year Old BiPolar Daughter Going Downhill (again)
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 712800" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Shes not a little girl. Dont ever forget that. She is a 30 year old woman and almost all 30 year olds are on their own completely, even if they have bipolar (i have a mood disorder too.) They are mostly not on drugs, working, in relationships, parenting, thriving and not abusing their parents. It is very not the norm for an adult child to abuse a parent. It is not the nice. It is not okay.</p><p></p><p>I wasnt close to my mother either. That doesnt mean you or I have to put up with abuse. From anyone. The fact is, this daughter will not chose a warm, cozy relationship with you. She will want you to put everything aside and give, give, give to her.</p><p></p><p>You have many blessings in your life.Embrace them. Let your dysfunctional daughter do her own life. You cant save her and trying to do so could make you very sick. Dont let her. She has many choices to make her life better. If she wont that is on her, not on you. Only she can do good for hersrlf. Dont let her live with you. You know in your heart how badly that would go. </p><p></p><p>Love and light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 712800, member: 1550"] Shes not a little girl. Dont ever forget that. She is a 30 year old woman and almost all 30 year olds are on their own completely, even if they have bipolar (i have a mood disorder too.) They are mostly not on drugs, working, in relationships, parenting, thriving and not abusing their parents. It is very not the norm for an adult child to abuse a parent. It is not the nice. It is not okay. I wasnt close to my mother either. That doesnt mean you or I have to put up with abuse. From anyone. The fact is, this daughter will not chose a warm, cozy relationship with you. She will want you to put everything aside and give, give, give to her. You have many blessings in your life.Embrace them. Let your dysfunctional daughter do her own life. You cant save her and trying to do so could make you very sick. Dont let her. She has many choices to make her life better. If she wont that is on her, not on you. Only she can do good for hersrlf. Dont let her live with you. You know in your heart how badly that would go. Love and light. [/QUOTE]
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